Girlfriend problems:/?

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How should I handle this? My girlfriend and I will have been together a year and 8 months on the 30th coming up. She recently broke up with me like about a week ago because she "lost feelings for me." We were giving it time and finally I made her so mad that there was no chance we were going to get back together and I was fighting for us. Then she kissed somebody else but she said she had no feelings for him she just did it. It really hurt me but I do still love her a lot. I was talking to her parents an they were saying to find a girl I might like and see what's going with her and try to move on and if I like her then be with her. So pretty much she was saying if it works with the new girl then be with them and if not then my ex will probably realize what she lost and want me back and that'll be up to me. She said if it was meant to be then we'd find our way back to each other. I mean she regrets kissing that guy even though we were single but we still had each others heart and she regrets she did it because we would've probably gotten back together. Just hard. Should I find someone new and test it?
Oh and I still love her and would take her back in a heartbeat cause we really had something special. She was my first love.

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Yes, you should go out with someone new. 

1st loves are tricky. They'll always have a piece of your heart because there are so many memories and emotions attached to them. I still carry a little flame for my first love and its been 15 years since I've even seen her. 

However, I know that she wasn't right for me. By seeing new people you start to realize that there are certain things you are looking for in a girlfriend and eventually a wife. You'll never know what your options are unless you experience new things. 

So go for it. Pretty soon you'll get over the hurt and be left with the fond memories, In the mean time go have fun being single.

Mee · Answer

It really is good advice if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with.  There are three possible options.
1. Go out with someone else to try and get over her
2. Try to get her back by getting her flowers or when you are alone take her and tell her how you feel and just kiss her and see what happens because she probably still likes you because those feelings do not go away easily
or...
3. Sit around and mope eating ice cream and listening to sad love songs cutting yourself off from the rest of civilization.  

I personally would try these in order try number one and if that works, good for you but if it doesn't go to number two and if she totally rejects you then go out and buy yo azz some chocolate ice cream!

Nox · Answer

The greatest relationships have rocky patches, and sometimes you're not sure if you want to be with the other person, but it just seems like you 2 are doing that dance - holding onto something that's not there anymore. She told you she had no feelings for you and messed with another guy. She might feel bad because you 2 have history and has been with for awhile, but thinking that you're going to rekindle things like they are going to be great again is delusional. You should see other girls but do not get serious right away with anyone.

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all guys go thought this and us girl do to and sometime it take us woman to realize that we made a mistake. go out with someone else and see if it feels magical. and if not wait for the one that has the spark. she is out there. Your ex was right to tell you that "if you are met to be then you will find your way back to one another." follow your heart. good luck

We Stitch These Wounds · Answer

Dont be with someone else if you still love this girl, it wouldnt be fair on the other person or yourself. If she truely doesnt want to be with you then you first need to get over her before the date someone else. Give it time though. Dont make any irrational decisions until you are 100% positive about it

Ẩn danh · Answer

You sound young so I say try something new. Maybe you guys will get back. 

From my experience I tried something new and regret it. But i bet i would regret it if it was the other way too.

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