hello everyone, I need advices?

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This guy had a crush on me first and he just confessed it with me. At first i didn’t like him but when i know him better, I started to feel for him. We actually like each other but not really in the boy/girlfriend relationship. We live in different city so we decide to meet once in a or two week. He does give me lots of love and care when we meet. But only the problem is he never text or calls to me, not even once when we are apart. I know him in person that he is not a flirty guy and he doesn’t have many female friends so there is no way he has another girl. That’s why i don’t understand. I asked but he said he’s lazy and didn’t like texting but i am still not sure about this. I mean he’s like two different person. I don’t feel he likes me if I look at the way he text me but when we meet, I see he really likes me.  What do you guys think?. Thanks for answering me!!

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Not everyone gauges the closeness of a relationship by the number of texts exchanged on a given day. Maybe he's a bit of a Luddite, maybe he's just busy with practical things. But if this isn't working for you you're certainly free to go find someone who's more attentive in the ways you want.

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Some people THINK they have a Secure thing, until they find out THEY DON'T.

Try letting him know that OTHER GUYS are starting to talk to you more and more.

Some people CHANGE, when they feel Competition.

If he doesn't react, time to move on.

No matter how much you Love someone or Want to be with them,  
if you are NOT COMPATIBLE, your relationship WON’T BE 
a happy one or last very long.

There will be lotsa Fights, Arguments, Insecurity and Jealousy. 
OR you’ll find out something you don’t like.

Keep in mind, that NOT every relationship you get into is for you OR 
will workout forever.  
Sometimes you or they will mess up and a misunderstanding 
could end you as a couple.

Learn from these mistakes for YOUR NEXT relationship. 
I estimate, it takes most people 4 to 7 relationships 
BEFORE YOU KNOW what you are looking for in a 
"til death do you part" mate. 
That has just been my experience.

Relationships give you experience on Right and Wrong ones.

Ẩn danh · Answer

What do you guys think? - I do not think he is really cares about you, you are just to use as a sexual object. That is just my cynical opinion.

Ẩn danh · Answer

Work on your English.

hello everyone, I need advices?

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